Nannies worldwide appreciate families who maintain consistent routines, especially during visits from relatives and guests. The best families support their nanny’s work by ensuring schedules remain intact — including meals, naps, and outings — even when visitors are present.

When family or friends visit with young children, they should be responsible for their own children’s care. If guests bring their own nanny, it can be a wonderful opportunity for the nannies to exchange ideas for games, crafts, and recipes. Collaboration between nannies often results in creative and engaging activities for all the children.

If visiting family or friends wish for the household nanny to care for their children during her scheduled shift, parents should inform the nanny in advance so she can adjust her routine accordingly. As a professional courtesy, it is always the nanny’s choice to accept additional responsibilities, and any extra care should be matched with a fair additional rate per child.