The Skilled Nanny

A skilled nanny brings a rare combination of expertise, intuition, and genuine care to her work. She is a trusted partner to parents and a steady, loving presence in the lives of children.

Core Traits and Mindset

Maintains constant, meaningful communication with children.

Is naturally patient, nurturing, and understanding.

Protects the dignity of every child and advocates for their best interests.

Teaches right from wrong through example and positive reinforcement.

Is committed to the children in her care and to the family she serves.

Adheres to higher-than-average professional standards.

Respects herself, the workplace, the privacy, and the lifestyle of the family.

Upholds confidentiality at all times, safeguarding the family’s personal and professional matters.

Professional Conduct

Leaves personal problems at home, ensuring complete focus during work hours.

Only speaks about herself when necessary and relevant.

Never touches employers’ valuables or wanders outside designated areas.

Uses only the children’s spaces for work and play.

Avoids personal questions and offers suggestions only when asked.

Knows when her charges need her and responds promptly.

Maintains the highest level of safety awareness, including emergency preparedness.

Evaluates her own work regularly to ensure employer satisfaction.

Understands and respects cultural, dietary, and lifestyle differences within the family.

Child Development and Care

Reads and understands children’s cues, expressions, and body language.

Observes and learns from children to anticipate developmental milestones.

Prepares for each new growth stage and the challenges it brings.

Keeps up-to-date on child psychology, motor skills, spatial skills, and overall child development.

Continuously learns and updates age-appropriate games, activities, and learning tools.

Knows all the children’s toys and uses them purposefully for growth and learning.

Integrates educational opportunities into daily routines naturally.

Daily Interaction and Engagement

Uses imagination to create play, art, and educational activities.

Invents creative ways to communicate with children at all ages.

Keeps children engaged in healthy, enriching activities that build confidence and skills.

Enjoys outings to parks, museums, libraries, and nature walks, encouraging curiosity and active play.

Reads books, tells stories, and explains concepts in a way children can understand.

Plays floor games, puppets, skits, and water activities to encourage joy and bonding.

Maintains consistent routines for naps, meals, activities, and downtime.

Emotional Support

Remains calm and effective in responding to a child’s cry or distress.

Implements immediate comfort strategies tailored to each child’s needs.

Creates a safe, calm environment where children feel secure enough to sleep — even during baths.

Builds deep trust, allowing children to relax and feel protected in her care.

Loves being in the company of children because they rely on her and feel understood.

Experience and Reliability

Has at least three years of direct childcare experience.

Is highly aware of hazards and actively prevents unsafe situations.

Understands and consistently meets the family’s expectations.

Functions as a positive role model for children in behavior, manners, and respect.

Keeps high energy, motivation, and proactivity throughout the day.

Adapts to unexpected changes with flexibility and a problem-solving mindset.

Communicates effectively with parents about progress, challenges, and daily updates.

 

 

The right moment to hire help

Ideally, the moment you choose life to expand your family is the moment to find help.

There is a saying that it takes a village to raise a child, and there exist communities in other cultures where people take this literally. Unfortunately, in our culture, we can't expect our parents, sisters, brothers, or even cousins to come live with us while our babies grow. Mom and Dad usually go through all the phases of pregnancy and postpartum alone. There is nothing to be afraid of, and there is much to learn. However, in our US culture, the industry is growing at its fastest pace each day. Child care professionals have adopted the services of teachers and nurses, and more and more, other agencies are joining our communities to provide complete support to parents. Doulas, postpartum Doulas, lactation consultants, and early baby educators come together to offer new parents all the support they need, beginning in the early stages of pregnancy.

Education and experience are sometimes not necessary when new professionals can prove their education in each field. However, many times, education and experience are obtained by the verified number of years a provider has worked with parents and children.

There are many ways to find help.

Your OB/GYN can recommend reliable child care help, and here is a list you can refer to find help for your family.

  • Agencies,
  • Doulas
  • Word of mouth recommendations
  • Indeed
  • Facebook
  • Online NVS/PPD and Professional Nannies Websites
  • Google search
  • Workforce Commission

On this website, I have collected all the steps necessary to hire the right person. Although it is up to you at what stage of your pregnancy or motherhood you need someone, you might have already decided on the time you anticipate needing help. 

 

If you need help deciding, I can offer the options as your guide.

 

Read books. Choose the books to read from the list to continue with this journey on your own.

Of course, please listen to your OB/GYN recommendations during pregnancy, learn all the classes they provide at the hospital. At the hospital, you will learn all the basics to care for your new baby.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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